Mark 10:7-8
7 For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and cleave to his wife;
8 And they twain shall be one flesh: so then they are no more twain, but one flesh.
Ephesians 5:22
22 Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.
When you have to make a decision, who do you confide in? If you are married, the very person you should talk to is your spouse. You are supposed to be one flesh but yet most married couples run back to mommy and daddy to find out what they think before they speak to one another. Men, God said you are to leave your mother and father and cleave to your wife. Not cleave to your mommy and daddy for them to pamper you your whole life. Ladies the bible says submit to your husbands, and no I am not saying that you have to do everything he tells you to do. What I am saying is sometimes you and your husband will make decisions your parents do not agree with. However, if that is the decision God led you to, your parents will get over it. You took a vowel to each other and not your parents. Men and women stop clinging to your parents and cleave to one another as husband and wife in the eyes of God.